Previously on Digital Doll….
I am a huge advocate of being kind to yourself, telling all the people that I care about that they should speak to themselves as they would do a good friend, I have realised I am also a huge hypocrite (advice is so easy to dish out and hard to follow). I am blessed with a inner voice of doom that tells me terrible demotivating and self confidence wrecking rubbish:
“you won’t know where to start”
“you’re too old to start something new”
“you’re wasting your time”
…and so on and on and on.
Feeling this way put me in a bad mindset, thinking that that is also how others saw me. I had begun to dread the question “so what do you do?” – hearing the emphasis on the DO and feeling totally worthless, feeling judged that my kiddios are off at school and I am at home hiding beneath houseperson chores and slowly spiralling into an oblivion of facebook and internet shopping. I felt ashamed of myself. Boooooooo!
So I have had a break, a big BIG break and I’m back feeling fresh and reinvigorated with a completely different aim and outlook.
Home has settled down a lot; from wrangling two tiny children to having both girls at school to getting more, undisturbed sleep and having Mister IT-Rex working closer to home and being present a lot more. Life is good and I finally have some time and focus and IDEAS! More importantly I have found a spark of self motivation.
I have been trying to decide what it is that I want to do when I grow up. I am very lucky and have a super supportive husband that wants me to find something satisfying to do rather than shipping me out to work asap. I am currently trying my best to mute that inner voice of evil El, and to the IT-Rex’s delight have tentatively started trying some stuff out. I think I have left it a bit too long to take up the ballet dancing career that I had my sights on when I was five but I do have quite a few ideas for some applications / websites / inventions that I am going to see if I can make.
So I am starting out again, attempting to find and dust off everything I have already learned and I have started a short course on how code for iOS and OS X using Swift. Instead of ploughing through the one thing, with it getting stale or unengaging I am going to do this alongside planning out some of my ideas and picking something to start with. I am then going to see what else I need to know to make it happen and will travel along that path. I am also going to look in to persuing some other frivolous things on the side, something arty or wordy (or both) and fun.
And you know what evil El voice twin? If it doesn’t work it doesn’t matter, I will go and try something else!
Interesting bits and pieces, fripperies, inventings, stuff, jam and mystery!